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Category Archives: family
I Have a Son
His name is August. It’s strange to read it, I know. It’s strange to write it, and I’ve had months to get used to the idea. A lump rises in my throat as I write it. I’ve asked myself many times why I struggle to look forward to being around the (freer and happier) son who’s beenContinue reading “I Have a Son”
Ebola–Close to Home
Here’s the thing: my husband could’ve been Kent Brantly. He stood in JFK Hospital in Monrovia, Liberia while their first Ebola patient came in. My perspective as a wife was first to be angry and irrational–why did you go back to Liberia? Holy shit. Get out of there now. Et cetera. He did get outContinue reading “Ebola–Close to Home”
The Dog who Loves Selfies
Magnolia has adopted Instagram as her preferred social media platform, and I’m committed to not getting my parental funk all over the site by joining it. She didn’t specifically ask me not to, but it’s an easy enough gesture. So, I’m sharing a few of the selfies she took with Eleanor and the dogs. Because theyContinue reading “The Dog who Loves Selfies”
Rest and Recovery
Hi. Nearly a month has passed and I’m finally writing something longer than an email. Hooray for progress!! I’m doing very well post surgery and recovering as expected. Reading and writing are still taxing. Focusing takes A LOT of effort and seeing letters and words move quickly across the screen makes me motion sick. It’sContinue reading “Rest and Recovery”
What I Have in Common with Moby Dick, Mr. Roper and Rachmaninof
Much of the last few weeks I’ve been doing my research on Trigeminal Neuralgia (TN). A few interesting things I’ve learned include: Norman Fell (aka Mr. Roper from Three’s Company) had TN, as did Jefferson Davis, Sergei Rachmaninof, Gloria Steinem, and Norma Zimmer. A bit character in Moby Dick is noted for having it. “Didn’tContinue reading “What I Have in Common with Moby Dick, Mr. Roper and Rachmaninof”
Trigeminal Neuralgia: Ultimate Negative Reinforcement
This is what my face feels like about 5 to 20 times a day depending on how fussy my trigeminal nerve is feeling. That’s not an exaggeration. You know how when you go to a doctor for some pain issue and they ask you to rate it on a scale from 1-10? Women in laborContinue reading “Trigeminal Neuralgia: Ultimate Negative Reinforcement”
A Very Merry Bookmas!
While the girls are busy today playing Rock Band with the new puppy, I’ll be happily hiding in my library among my books. This year I add two really special books to my shelves. Rackety Boom: My most favorite book from childhood. Not sure why I loved a book about a jalopy so much, butContinue reading “A Very Merry Bookmas!”
If My Life Were a Book Cover (7)
Title: Hippie Van! During our recent family trip to Seattle and Portland it became Eleanor’s (and consequently Magnolia’s and my) mission to shout HIPPIE VAN every time we saw one. There were a lot — something you don’t get much in Indianapolis, even when you live close to Broadripple. Counting up all the occurrences ofContinue reading “If My Life Were a Book Cover (7)”
Seeing Us In Them
I haven’t blogged about family in a while. Partly because the older the girls get the more they read the blog, so the more at risk I am for embarrassing them. But, I can share the following story safely. I think all parents and relatives have a keen eye for who looks like who inContinue reading “Seeing Us In Them”